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Saturday, December 31

2016 Goal Recap




Well hello out there.  It has been a while since I have been in this space.  I visit blogger often and visit those who still blog to see what they are up to but I have been rather quiet here.  I feel like life has been a bit of an uphill hike these last couple of months.  There are still ongoing issues with my Nan's will, I am still positive that her wishes will be fulfilled though the journey to get there is a windy one.  My oldest daughter finished high school which was a momenteous occasion full of happiness and sadness, a new journey for her and for us as parents.  It is such a strange feeling having one of your children finish school, with me wondering how quickly those years did fly by.  So next year I will have an adult in my home, it's time to let go....

With that all being said I couldn't finish my year off without reflecting on my goals for 2016, my year  about  FOCUS. Here's a little summary of my goals.

* To focus on making my home beautiful with handmade and natural objects. Beeswax candles, handmade cushions and beautiful linens, to create more.  
In my home I tried to introduce some plants into the bathroom and living room.  My success had been a bit touch and go I have to say but I have been persistent, if one dies just try again.  I have bought beautiful beeswax candles to light at dinner time.  My plan was to make some which I haven't quite done yet but I have all the makings for lots of beautiful handmade candles.  As for making cushions sadly I haven't done a lot of sewing until Christmas.  I have though been conscious choosing to buy things that are natural when we need them, like new organic bed sheets.
* To focus on being organised with gifts and handmade cards and motivated for birthdays, anniversaries and yearly events like Easter and Christmas.
Well I still have been making all of my cards for birthdays and this Christmas all of my cards were made by the end of November which was pretty exciting for me.  As for being organised ahead of time I would have to say I still wasn't great but there were fewer late birthday gift arrivals this year.  I had most of my Christmas shopping done I would say about a week before Christmas which wasn't too bad.  It is an area I still need to work on I think but my struggle is usually with coming up with gift ideas which always puts me behind so if I can work on the ideas ahead of time that might help...
* To focus on continuing to be motivated by reading, listening and exploring what makes my heart sing.
This year I was very focussed by reading each evening books that made my heart sing.  I listened to many podcasts on my phone and while I was in the kitchen, some inspirational and some for fun.  I love this goal and it's one that I will continue with always.
* To focus on my fitness and health journey. Getting myself to bed early, looking after my mind, body and spirit.
I would say every week pretty much, I have done some form of exercise.  I go the the gym several times each week and up until the end of school I was going to yoga every week too which I loved.  I still continue to eat as healthy as possible at the same time having a treat too otherwise it would be too hard to maintain.  As far as the getting to bed early well I didn't do so well with that and continue to go to bed too late.  It really is something I want to improve so I have bought a book on creating habits which I am hoping will help me create a good habit of going to bed earlier.
* Focus on not allowing my fear to stop me creating, sewing, knitting, crocheting and photography. Fear is a state of mind not a state of being.
I haven't been as creative as I would like to have been this year.  I have still been crocheting but haven't really pushed myself to do any different techniques.  This Christmas though I have taken myself into the craft room and have been sewing.  One of the projects, a simple purse, wasn't difficult but it was a tedious project which I procrastinated about.  I did eventually push through and did make them, four in fact which was great.  I don't think any knitting was done, I did get creative throughout the year making things for birthdays and other events.  My photography as been a little slow but fairly consistent.  My issue again is with space on my laptop which I hope to solve with a new laptop in the new year.
* Focus on the good people, let go of all that does not serve me, learn from it and move forward.
This was really tricky for me this year.  After my Nan passed away life changed, the journey was rocky for my family.  Issues arose and people became challenging. To this day their actions can still hold an impact but I am working each day at letting things go and know that things are going to work out how they are meant to.

This year has challenged and tested me.  I have grown as a person and am happy with my journey, learning that I am strong, capable and excited about the future.  Tomorrow I will be back with my new goals and my new word.  Until tomorrow my friends.  A very, very Happy New Year to you!!! May your year be filled with things that make you happy, shine within and lots of love.

Tuesday, December 31

Last day of 2013

Today is the last day of the year.  Usually I evaluate my goals and post new ones for the year ahead but this year I am just a bit tired.  If I focus on the positives that I have achieved of my goals, then I did practice my photography a lot with photos of my daughters each week which I enjoyed and it challenged me.  I made those appointments and saw doctors, I also found a yoga class I liked and was mostly good about going but didn't get around to that massage.  I think I will still write some more things I'd like to achieve or to focus on for the year ahead and will post them soon. I think it's good to be able to put in writing things you want to set out to do.  What my biggest hope for the year ahead is for it to be a happy one, to remember to always be grateful especially for the wonderful people in my life. I know that there will be challenging times ahead for my father's ailing health is still a big concern but with the love and support of family we will get through this time. So as not to end the year without showing you some happy snaps for there has been some wonderful moments.  Here are some photos from the past week, Christmas and the New Year fireworks.  Thank you for all of your support over the past year, for your kindness and ever encouraging words.  May the year ahead be one of great happiness and good health for you and your family.  
Happy New Year!!!
1. Food for Santa
2. Pretty new shoes
3. Little ones holding Dad's hand
4. Pavlova made by hubby and Miss 9, decorated by me
5 & 6. Fireworks

Wednesday, October 3

Routine

The other day I was reading a post where Rhonda was talking about routines and re-establishing her own.  I am a very routine person, I love to write notes and I function better with a mental schedule of sorts I think if I didn't have one I'm sure I would forget what I had and hadn't achieved.  In saying that I feel that since Miss 8 started school what I achieve in my day seems less, I feel that I should be able to achieve more than I do, that I need to be strict with myself and the time I spend on different areas of my life. It frustrates me at the end of the day knowing that I have lost precious hours and not really have as much to show for it as I would like.  I have sat down before many a time and tried to write down a daily routine for myself but I find it difficult to stick to, but there are things that I really want to change. At the moment I'm even finding that I'm struggling with my yearly goals which I'm disappointed about so something needs to change. The other night I decided to give writing my routine another try.  I think the Spring air has been a motivator, reading the book 'Happiness Project' as well has spurred me on to realising that I need to focus on certain aspects of my life/routine.  This time I decided rather than a daily routine I would break it up under headings like Garden, Christmas, Internet/Computer Rules, Daily Routines, Christmas, Cooking, Animals, Friends and Me.  In each area I have jotted down points that help me to focus my attention on aspects that I feel need to be addressed, things that I really want to achieve, things that may have been let go by the wayside.  I've been thinking to help ensure that I am successful that I make these visible, that I print them up and put them somewhere I will see them everyday.  I am really keen to bring about some positive change to my life, not that things aren't good I just want them to be better as this year has been a bit of an emotional one for me.  Do you find it difficult to be strict with yourself, to really focus on your goals?  Do you have any tips you find helpful that keeps you focused?  I would love to hear.

Sunday, April 1

April

I'm not one to blog normally on the weekend but I like to blog on the first day of the month, and another month it is, already!  The girls are busy playing with the neighbours outside and hubby is off at the tip so I've found a nice breezy spot to sit and write.  Last night I was sitting in bed and wrote out my daily list of things I wanted to accomplish and felt inspired to set some goals of things I want to achieve this month. The year already seems to have moved by fast and I thought some direction might mean that I get a few more things done on my yearly goal list.  Here are some goals for the month of April:
∗ crochet some more of the rug and have 20 rows completed (to have ready for Winter)
∗ finish the book 'Down to Earth'
∗ bake bread once a week (source bulk flour)
∗ explore one new place
∗ limit my computer time to 2 hours per day
∗ make one thing for the house
Fat Slim Mum has a photo a day challenge and although I probably won't join I thought I'd use it as inspiration today.  I'd much rather be behind the camera but here's a photo of me, I really need to organise that hairdressing appointment it's been too long.

I hope your Sunday has been an enjoyable one